Resolution 2009 of the wife-to-Be

Most of us make resolutions on New Year's Day and quickly out of the January 2nd! Around for most of our resolution, go to the gym more, reduce the consumption of alcohol and chocolate and give more to charity. Happy New Year!

But if you marry this year, your resolutions will probably have a deeper meaning and you probably always stick to them. I know it is a bit late in the year now, but if you do not have all the resolutions, here are some suggestions you May want to consider taking up:

1. I will not be a Bridezilla.

Bridezilla-ism can strike the best wives in the worst moments. The stress of planning a wedding is hard enough for the most patient of us to unleash the fury of our closest and most expensive because the napkins are the wrong shade of white or have broken a fingernail. If you are on the brink of a bridezilla episode, take a deep breath, make the prospect and work around the problem.


2. I keep wedding budget. Well, I'll stay in the budget. Ok, I'll try to keep the same number of digits that the initial budget.

A married seriousness of the debt is not a recipe for a happy marriage. So when you set your wedding budget - to keep. If you can not afford something, or find an alternative to be creative and make your own.

3. I will not sacrifice romance for the wedding planning.

Do not let the shadow on planning wedding, and any attempt to stay in the real world, at least once a week. Set aside some time to spend with your fiancé, then you can be alone and talk to ban all marriages! Having one day to go for a romantic dinner or simply a day in bed! As long as you remember what it was that led you to get married in the first place.

4. I remember that not everything about the marriage must be absolutely perfect.

Nothing can be perfect. There is always something that you think should be improved or was simply "not quite right." The important thing is that you are both there on the day, you both say "I do" and your guests the day off feeling well fed, happy and talking about what was a good time.

5. I will not make any marriage.

It is impossible for a person to fill all the wedding planning themselves. Accordingly, delegate and do our best for your fiancé, mother, stepmother and chief bridesmaid. While booking the transport, collection of flowers, pick up the dresses or costumes and collecting wines. This is something to fear for you. A good idea would be to write a list of his team and his own at the beginning of your marriage, each of you, you are your responsibility.

6. I'll try to do with my future in-laws during the wedding planning.

It can be difficult. Many mothers-in-law are ideas on how their beloved son to get married. But try to understand that marriage is a joyous occasion for everyone if stressful. Try to include in the decision-making and ask him to perform certain tasks planning marriage. In this way, they feel important and included. And if it becomes too much to bear at times - with a smile, take a deep breath and try to be diplomatic.

7. I will try to take a break from marriage from time to time.

Ok, similar to the Resolution No. 3. But the time on your own is just as important. Go to the end, a manicure or lunch with the girls, but be sure to banish all thoughts of the wedding ceremony during this period. It will help focus your mind, you relaxed and help you in planning a wedding with a fresh perspective.

8. I remember to appreciate during this joy!

Yes, weddings are supposed to be fun. May, it seems like her in the months before the big day, but if you love what you do, it will display. Have you forgotten that the ultimate goal.